Can you have a dream about your twin flame and not like what you see?

i think he was my twin flame because he was some random old guy i had never meet before but at first i didn't feel like he was but since i was looking at him through a mirror i thought he had to be. and i started getting very nervous and i was aware of my heart beating very rapidly. i didn't like him in looks. but i started thinking about some one who i knew now (i was still asleep at the time although i did not realize it until i woke up) who made me very nervous when i saw him at first and i never stop being nervous but i calm down now every time i see him when i got use to seeing him almost every day. but instead of judging him like i did with my twin flame (not sure if that was my twin flame) i realized i accepted him and all his imperfections and perfection and i don't judge him by his age 22 years my senior and the thing is i know he cares about me only as a friend. im really young to be having this experiences and feeling this way (im 14) i started getting into soul mates and twin flames when i meet him because i was so confused and i didn't know what to do. i read the book soul mates (i found it will walking into my big sisters room ) and i thought he felt like that but still im confused one of the reasons i like him so much is his eyes they very beautiful and i see myself in them.